If the answer is yes then I understand your pain as I too was stuck in a marriage with no intimacy and was in desperate need of sexless marriage advice but did not really know where to turn!
I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone else and these things are just not talked about. It was an odd feeling being rejected by your husband over and again, you hear of it happening more often with wives losing their drive which also made this more confusing.
I blamed myself for the sexless marriage at times thinking if had become too fat or too old or that i was not doing enough somehow. I went on health kicks and got discouraged when any slight improvement in my figure was totally ignored ... these gains were lost when i fell and pigged out on chocolate again.
Then I went through a stage where i blamed him for everything, i became the nag wife from hell and said terrible things about him and his manhood which i am so shamed of now. This obviously did not help.
We did not completely abstain from sex but the rare occasions it happened it was over too fast and lacked any real intimacy or excitement which i remembered from the years after we married.
This sexless marriage had me packing my bag on multiple occasions to leave. It was not just the sex it was him not talking about it, it was the lack of feeling wanted ... i felt like i had a surly roommate not a lover.
I turned to the internet which I was not very good with and started searching for something to help me with this sexless marriage. I almost gave up after finding plenty of porn sites and dating sites for some reason but I eventually found a few people in chat rooms that pointed me to an excellent guide that helped along with their support.
The guide is called Fix Your Sexless Marriage and i set this blog up to talk a little of my experiences and that of some wonderful people i met online too.
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